Most of you are probably familiar with "I Am Second" but, if not, I highly recommend that you check out their web site. You can find a link to the site on the right side of this page under "links to other sites I like."
The "I Am Second" web site includes a number of compelling video testimonies from people, some famous -- some not, who are trying their best to put God first in their lives. A few of these people have faced relatively little adversity in their lives. Most, though, at one time or another found themselves in extremely dark places -- in places where God alone could rescue them.
Lately I have been thinking a good deal about a number of people I know who at times seem to have a strong faith and know the Word of God, but at the same time do not seem to put themselves second or third. These are people whose actions much of the time -- or even most of the time -- seem inconsistent with a Christ-centered life. Not that I am by any means perfect. As I have said before in this blog, just ask my wife!
One of the things that irritates me so much about people like this is that their actions have the very real potential to drive others away from the church and, more importantly, away from God. When we profess publicly to be people of faith and yet our actions say differently, the potential for spiritual mischief is enormous. It really is true that actions speak louder than words.
There is a great book out called "unChristian" that resulted from a survey of young people outside of the church. Among other things, 85% of the young outsiders surveyed viewed Christians as hypocritical. And, "hypocritical" is exactly what I am talking about.
But there is something even more disturbing to me about these professed Christians whose lives seem to be so out of sync with God -- and that is my reaction to them. What I mean by that is my reaction is all too often to become frustrated, and worse, to become judgmental. I find at times that I get so frustrated with the symptoms I am observing that I give little or no thought to the real underlying problem.
At times Christians act unChristian out of ignorance. Sometimes even people who have grown up in the church are simply unaware that their actions and attitudes are not in sync with the Word of God. It may be that they are fairly new to the faith, or it maybe because they attended a church that put too much emphasis on God's blessings and not enough emphasis on the responsibilities that go along with the Christian walk.
Sometimes Christians just lack self awareness. Sometimes we don't have a firm grasp on how others perceive us. Sometimes we spend too much time telling others how to act and not enough time modeling the Christian life ourselves.
But, much of the time when we see people acting in unChristian ways it is because they are struggling with some significant issue in their own lives. Sometimes the worries of life -- the difficult job situation, the troubled marriage, the rebellious child -- cause us to lose focus and to act in ways that the Holy Spirit, if we took time to listen, would tell us are just wrong.
When we see our family and friends acting in unChristian ways or carrying unChristian attitudes we have several choices. We can do nothing -- which is usually the easy thing. We can be judgmental and condemning of their behavior. Or, we can "deal gently with those who are ignorant and are going astray...." This is where things get tough.
Going to our Christian brothers and sisters to talk about their unChristian behavior is a difficult thing. It takes wisdom, it takes discernment and it takes guidance from the Holy Spirit.
I am not by any means suggesting that as a general matter we should be running around telling other Christians how to act. In fact, I seem to remember a little story about splinters and planks that counsels against doing that. What I am saying, I guess, is two things. First, there is a time and a place -- a season -- for everything. Sometimes we just need to speak into other people's lives, even if the things we have to say are difficult and unlikely to be well received (at least initially).
Second, we need to have a little grace for people. You never know what is at the root of bad behavior or bad attitudes. We often have no idea about a person's past life experiences or even painful things that are happening to them at that very moment. And, of course, we do need to be mindful of our own imperfections.
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God bless, and Merry Christmas!
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Saturday, December 10, 2011
Friday, December 2, 2011
THE CHRISTMAS PRESENT
STOP!!
BE Still!
TAKE a deep breath.
Relax.
OK?
Here is a question for you: what's the best Christmas present that you could possibly give to anyone this year? While your thinking about that, here is my Christmas rant.
It seems to me that a normal part of the Christmas experience these days is the battle between Christians and those who want to kill off Christmas, or at least turn Christmas into a fully secular holiday. Forgive me, but I am growing tired of this particular distraction/tradition. Honestly, I get tired of reading story after story this time of year about this business or that school district taking the "Christ" out of "Christmas."
Actually, come to think of it, the battle has really moved from there. Now people are basically taking Christmas out of the vocabulary entirely. It seems like everything these days is part of this nondescript, non-specific "holiday" season. There are "holiday trees," "holiday parties," "holiday gifts" and, for you shoppers out there, "holiday sales."
But, I digress.
We can get as excited as we want about the secularization of Christmas, but in the end the secularization of Christmas is just a symptom of a much bigger problem -- the secularization of America. The problem is not politicians or political correctness -- it is that we are losing the battle for souls in this country.
The problem is that the church has become ineffective. The problem is that we have allowed generation after generation to have a casual relationship with Jesus. The problem is that we have not pushed American Christians to truly put God first in their lives.
The problem is that most Christians in America are indistinguishable from their neighbors. The problem is that we are viewed as hateful and hypocritical. The problem is that the church has all too often lead with a message of condemnation instead of a message of the incredible love of Jesus.
The problem is that the church thinks that it can regain America by electing conservative politicians. The problem is that we have forgotten that the real battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
The problem is that the church has been ineffective in teaching the Gospel. The problem is that we have allowed the message of the Bible to blend in with and be confused by popular philosophy and culture. The problem is that many American "Christians" believe that there are many paths to heaven.
The problem is this: that too many of us are simply unwilling to share our faith with unbelievers. It may be for any numbers of reasons -- embarrassment, lack of confidence, laziness, feelings that we are unworthy, lack of preparation ... you name it.
I think it is critically important for each of us to meditate on the true meaning of Christmas -- on who Jesus is and why he came. That should be something we think about 365 days a year.
But, I think its even more important that we not get so focused on our own celebration of Christmas that we lose sight during this season of why we are here. The church exists primarily to prepare God's people for works of service for His Kingdom, and the primary work that we should be focused on is to make disciples of all nations -- including the United States.
During Christmas time, or any time of the year, there is one gift that we can give to other people that surpasses any other. It is a gift that money cannot buy and that all of the power in the world cannot take by force. That gift is the gift of Jesus Christ. It is the gift of eternal life. It is the knowledge that Jesus loves us so much that He sacrificed Himself for our sins.
It is the knowledge that no matter who we are, no matter what mistakes we have made and no matter how unworthy we feel, there is a God who loves us, a God who forgives us, and a God who will run to us when we are ready to turn to Him.
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